Confidence is the most beautiful thing that everyone should have which makes individuals standout. There is a thin line between confidence and lying to ourselves. Everyday life is not a walk on the beach where we can get away with hanging things out. Different body sizes and different shapes are what make it all exciting. We are not responsible of how we were born like but as we grow older and understand ourselves we try to change to what we desire. Lucky ones do it successfully while others are so unlucky it never happens but others are confidently ok with what they look like. The matter of importance is to take care of our bodies and that should be prioritized.

These days it is like go very tight or goes home especially when the body says no to that. Big sisters drop those tight tops. The stomach will be hanging out and looking like the poor top is forced to put it together. There is a difference between embrace and disgrace. A perfect body is not needed in order to look amazingly good. Showing all layers of the belly behind what seems to be about two sizes smaller, now that will never look good. Cellulite and stretch marks are part of other women’s bodies but to show them off underneath the unnecessary so called 2 centimeters (short skirts) that we seem to all want to wear. They look unattractive and so nasty, so why do it? Is it a trend to wear the small tops or is it a sign of showing comfortability in ourselves?

Wearing the right size makes big look slimmer while wearing smaller size makes us more big than normal and this has been proven. The problem here is not the size but the manner in which that size is handled. Flaunt it with all due respect to be fabulous. Let us jaw drop for all the fabulous reasons not for looking all nasty, untidy and disrespectful of our only precious body. Women generally love to look good for us while we also love and enjoy being praised for looking good.

The leggings times have brought about so much shame, most events invite lately state that “ladies no leggings allowed” What is so sexy about showing off what kind and what color underwear is there, thin or big boned. Waking up in the morning it is good morning leggings with green panties, walking on the street anytime is hello leggings with purple panties, the mall is Hi leggings with pink panties, the night club is Hey I’m here leggings with pink/white panties. What is going on? Where is the love? Those panties are not the bikinis period. We might not be big fans of our bodies but we have self-love and what we love we nurture and protect. We protect from public indecency. It is best we remember respect is commanded not demanded!!

When we look good we feel good and when we feel good the world becomes our oyster. But what if you think you look good but for some reason you overhear people talking about your bad sense of dressing up your body? How, don’t you know from your bra size to a simple dress size? How have you a great eye for beautiful clothes? But how absolutely clueless you are about the right size to go for. That will definitely ruin the moment and it doesn’t matter how confident you are that will make you want to look yourself in the mirror one more time or even ask a close friend what they think about your dress code. Maybe just maybe some of us are not aware but for some is the result of lying to ourselves or denial that causes us to turn a blind eye to the good advice that’s already given. A stunning body is a well-dressed body no matter the size or shape. A beautiful woman commands respect by acting her worth!!!! PLEASE DRESS FOR YOUR BODY SIZE.