We say money makes the world go round. The saying on our lips is God doesn’t give by hand. Let’s talk blessers. Every woman love to be spoilt and showered not only with love but all kinds of gifts as well. Its all about money, meaning boy oh boy if you are broke forget it. These days it’s show me how big your wallet is then maybe just maybe we can talk. Is’nt it how amazing how everything seem to be twisted these days? Most wrong things are given beautiful names to make them sound right or sound like they are not what they really are. We do things then we turn and call them other things.

What is the difference between a prostitute and a woman who goes out looking for a blesser? Is the ultimate result not the same? Are the intentions not the same? Yet you’ll hear a woman with a blesser saying they will never prostitute themselve and saying all sorts of bad rubbish about prostitute. Lets call a spade a spade!!!!!! Better is the prostitude who does it openly because they are doing it and calling it like it is. A woman will be like “my blesser pays for this townhouse, my posh car and I get all that I want for as long I am available whenever he needs me” bragging to the whole world about it as if it’s the most wonderful archievement ever.

How about we change that statement to “ I prostitude myself to get everything that I have and to get what i want” Because a woman with a blesser gets more money with more expensive or luxurious things , makes it right and not prostitution? Why do we openly promote wrong things by making them sound all luxurious and giving them glorified names? Same thing different price tags to it. We have all kinds in our society from those who hang a beer price tag on it to those who gives it away for airtime and lunch money to those who sleep their way to better positions at their work place. Having that blesser just means it has a more higher price tag to it, don’t you think? Not the right to call it something it is not.

Willingly and openly is this not an encouragement to woman to go and prostitute themselves for comfortables lives? Young women will be encouraged to look for blessers rather looking into educating and blessing themselves in the future, more especially those who suffer. Sad thing is that these young women don’t even protect themselves for the sake of easy money. It is not easy money as it mostly comes with a heavy price of possible unwanted child by the blesser which may lead to arbotion and possible sickness. In turn will it still said it’s a blessing or rather a curse?

Call it a blessing all you want to suit your own ego but gold digging , cookie jar transaction deal, sex for money, is what it is. Khanyi Mbau was called all sort of names when she openly chose to date rich ones now I bet some of those people who did now choose to call themselves “blessed”. An excuse to sell ourselves and a good excuse for cheating. Like Kermit says it “ but none of my business” #STAY BLESSED